Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Life after marriage...

well.. alot of people has been asking me what life is after marriage for me.. it must be real blissful with the fact that my hubby and i are so sticky.. well there is good and bad...

good being that we can really spend all our time together, helping out each other when need arises..
cutting down unnecessary traveling time here and there..

bad being.. of course living habits.. both of us made major adjustments to our living habits...
him having to share his bed and room, etc with me..
me having to get used to his 'house' rules..
in a way.. we have a house.. but not a yet our home..
certain restrictions/things does put me off.. but i have to accept that as part of his life..
similarly.. he had to accept how I do certain stuff as that is part of my lifestyle too..

with a little rabbit baby along the way..
it does stress us both..
he feel stress cos of the monetary issues..
i feel stress cos of the gender issues..
haha...

my parents fuss over me like a little kid..
his parents.. haha.. don even both much.. only ask abt the gender.. so does it mean that if baby is a girl, they will ignore me, if baby is a boy, i will get bird nest everyday?

haiz.. things are not easy for us..
maybe like what my ma say.. we too efficient.. haha...

suddenly i realise.. for us both to have couple time.. really not much..
too many distraction.. ipad.. starhub tv.. internet..
haiz..

when we were dating.. things were simpler.. haha... less distractions..
no wonder he feels that marriage caused changes..
cos now we both have commitments to both our families..
so everything is 2X now.. haha..

anyway.. my checkup with gynae has been smooth and good.
baby is now 5cm and i can see baby both when we did the scanning at the clinic!
so amazing...
well.. till baby comes.. =)